Ok so i experienced this issue a couple times before and i hear mannnny girls say it. Most girls want an OLDER guy. So today i decided to know why is that.
So GIRLS, ask yourselves... why do you like older guys? what is it that makes you attracted to them? There has to be a reason, because just being attracted to an 'age' difference is not really wise.
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I don't quite know and I know most girls would say because they are more mature.
Maturity has nothing to do with age, it's all to do with how they want to perceive themselves and maturity comes from realization or trauma or a mix of both.
In my work place (child protective services), there are children who don't misbehave due to knowing (or rather thinking) they will be severely punished because they saw Mummy getting beaten by Daddy or either parent abused them badly enough to never make them step out of line. But once the teen years hit rebellion becomes 10x worse than someone who never got abused as a child, sometimes they are always well-behaved. This is what I have observed from maturity in children.
As for men, I've met men in their 50's who act like 5 year olds. Who judge everyone and haven't learnt a thing in the many years they have been blessed with.
My boyfriend is 8 months younger than me, I think he's the most maturest guy I have ever met. Of course he's not always serious and likes to have a laugh. His maturity came from being abused as a child and was VERY rebellious in his teen years but through those experiences he's learned from his mistakes and became a better man for it. He works in a care home and aims to become a doctor.0