so me and this guy have been kind of seeing eachother for like a montha dn he's met my pop but he hasn't asked me out yet but his sister said he wants to so how long does it normaly take a guy to ask a girl out?
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I ask a girl as soon as the idea goes through my head. I don't like wasting time, I get to the heart of matter quickly. But I'm not afraid of rejection, and I'd rather get rejected quickly so I can move on the next girl as soon as possible rather than wait around not knowing. Most guys are afraid of rejection and will wait forever to ask a girl out, falsely reasoning that if she knows them longer, she's more likely to say yes--but the reverse is true. The longer you know a girl, the less likely it is she'll say yes. And most guys wait until a girl has moved on, then wonder why they got rejected.
If he's in your age group, he most likely hasn't figured out to move things along quickly, so he'll probably take forever to ask. So in the meantime, start talking to other guys, in case that guy doesn't pan out.0