For me there has to be some level of physical attraction otherwise wouldn't you just be friends? I don't think it is shallow or superficial to think that.
What do you think? Are you with someone you are not physically attracted to?
- You MUST be physically attracted to someone to date themVote A
- It doesn't matterVote B
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Physical attraction does matter to an extent, yes. It should matter. I want to be with someone that is attracted to me, and I am attracted to her.
I also think that we all have our own ideas and feelings about attraction, and that when we are with someone we see something special in them that nobody else sees. For us, they are the most beautiful/handsome person on the planet, regardless of whether others agree or not.10