[General question] Introvert guy, extrovert girl: Can that work out?

One loves silence and solitude (or quality time with that one special someone onnly), while the other one loves going out and is more energetic; One doesn't enjoy too much social activities unless there aren't too many people, the other loves the presence of many people. One loves thinking, one loves talking.

What are your thoughts? Can an extrovert girl

Updates:
oops my rest of question didn't get through:
"Can an extrovert girl be used to that or will she get bored at some point? Will the guy be used to that or feel inadequate?"

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I know a lot of couples like that who seem like they get along just fine. I know a young couple in which the wife is super talkative (as in she never shuts up once she starts talking) and the husband is a lot more quiet. They've been married for a few years. I know another couple also in which the wife is super super talkative and expressive and the husband is quiet and low-key. They've been married for over a decade. Plus I have a close guy friend who is really calm and could stand in a room of people and never say a word, whereas I'm super hyper and sociable, and we get along great. So yeah, it can work.

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What Girls Said 5

  • I think this can work, you know, opposites atrack! If you date you can help eachother and sorta even or cancel eachother out, if that makes sence. She could help you become more outgoing but you can also help her become more melow. This happened with me and my old boyfriend. we dated almost 2 years. I didn't get bored with him. I hope i sorta helped! I have trouble explaining thinks haha :) good luck

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  • If both are willing to come to a compromise.. I think it can work.. If they are on the same page about most things and willing to try out new things for each other.. I don't see what they have to lose. As @Suspected said.. Opposites attract.. I would find it boring if two people were extroverts/introverts.. Don't know but that's my 2 cents in it

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  • It will work out only if you let her do what she wants sometimes , parties/etc... And if you aren't the type who gets jealous easily from her guy friends. ;)

    It wil be a happy relationship, just trust the extrovert

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  • I think it would be kind of tough. As an extrovert myself, dating an introvert could be a little too... Slow. You never know, opposites tend to attract even so.

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  • I think it will not work out very well.

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What Guys Said 6

  • The extrovert probably need some friends to do the social stuff with, going to partys with and talk a lot with. Then they can spend their quality time together.

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  • Yes it can work out. It depends. Sometimes opposites do attract and can stay together. Sometimes it's harder for two extroverts to connect well.

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  • Introverts are good listeners, extroverts are good talkers, so of course it can work out! If anything, it would probably be a good match. Assuming, when you say introvert you don't actually mean shy and you DO actually mean the real definition of introvert (being self driven)

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  • It is a non-issue in most couples.

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  • Hey, give it a try... opposites attract... sometimes!

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  • I think the opposite can work because I had a good girlfriend who was really shy and I'm a really outgoing guy but I think since girls kind of have guys chasing after them more than girls chase guys with a girl who's outgoing she'll flirt with these guys so it's not very good it could work but I don't think as well as the opposite.

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