why is that every time when I like someone, she either has a bf or she just got out of a relationship and will not date so I get put into the friend zone. just recently I started liking this one girl that I started talking to more and didn't know she was single ( because I new she had bf but they broke up) and she was starting to get interested in this one guy quickly (so im sure they will end up bf a gf) but yeah I really have the worst luck with finding the right type of girl for me. its hard to get out and try to meet ladies when you don't have many friends where you are for school to hangout with and go to a bar or something. I feel it is creepy going to the bar alone sometimes.. but yeah I seriously wonder why every time I start liking a girl she this happens..
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Bad luck is quite an adequate explanation. Finding someone is difficult, I can attest. I would tell you to not be discouraged, but let's be honest here, choosing the wrong girl every time is quite discouraging.
Now that we're speaking honestly, you have to know that this streak of futility cannot last forever. It's nothing personal, only extraordinary men are capable of breaching the security blanket of pity pat excuse making, and you're not extraordinary. And that's okay, many of us aren't.
Just polish your game and keep trying. Don't ever let the previous failure sabotage your next move. Composure is just as important as confidence when it comes to finding success, in all areas of life. This streak cannot last forever unless you let it.1