Which wins: Feelings or Preferences?

Which scenario in your life usually wins. Are you the type who will go after someone because they meet criteria despite no feelings in the beginning or would rather be with someone they fall for who doesn't meet the predefined standards?

  • Feelings>
    79% (11)50% (2)72% (13)Vote
  • Preferences>
    14% (2)0% (0)11% (2)Vote
  • It depends/I have no spine
    7% (1)50% (2)17% (3)Vote
And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Girl

  • My preferences are just preferences not necessarily standards that have to be met.
    I prefer tall guys, older guys, and ones who are super smart.
    Have I liked a short guy? Yes
    a guy my age or a bit younger? Yes
    guys who aren't super smart? Yes

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    • So your feelings beat preferences?

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    • Thanks for MH

    • No problem

What Girls Said 5

  • Feeling definitely

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  • I could have a preference, but if I feel good about a guy I don't really care about preference.

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  • feelings you follow your heart

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  • I develop feelings and can't compromise my standards though. I don't even have a lot anyway: I can get along with the person and I find them attractive.

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  • I said C just because he HAS to be a Christian, I won't date a guy who isn't whether I had feelings or not

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    • That is more of a requirement than a preference tbh

    • Oh ok well then if he has the requirement feelings lol

What Guys Said 2

  • Feelings always win... the "preferences" are nothing more than trying to make sense of feelings of dating past.

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  • It is actually hard to decide rite now... but for me i guess feeling... cz i had it for someone who i didn't knew at all!

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