There is this guy I've been talking to since the beginning of October. We mutually agreed that we were dating now. We've been on a date, but mostly hung out because of our schedules. We talked a lot in the beginning. It slowed down some when his account was launched at work. So the hours started picking up a lot and he was doing a lot of over time.
So I understand completely that he's going to be tired and isn't going to be able to talk to me as much as before. He promised to try to make time for me. It's not working out that much. I barely hear from anymore, even when he's off. Maybe like 2-5 texts a day. If I don't message him first, I won't hear from him for almost a whole day. Today, he made that same promise to me. I'm just kinda like whatever, because I'm started to feel like he's only talking to me to occupy his time. My friend said to give him a change, but I'm just tired of waiting.
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Two to five texts a day is barely hearing from him and he is working long hours? Hmm... That doesn't seem unreasonable to me. However, if you want to be in a committed relationship and he doesn't have the time for one, that's all together different. Maybe you should talk to him about what you are looking for (e. g. At least One date every xxx, and talk on the phone yy times a zzz, or whatever makes sense to you). Just be clear about what you want.1