From my experience and guys have to send view tons of profiles and sent out many messages only to get a handful back.
While from my female friends, They get swarmed with truck loads of spamy messages that have no indication of having even checking out the profiles. Like "Hi" or "your hot" or other pervy messages.
For me I try to send out semi paragraph messages about the shared hobbies to show that i have seen their profile.
I would like to hear more opinions and thoughts.
*First question on this site :p*
Most Helpful Girl
because guys rush it, get laid fast results is what they look for who is willing to date them first, basically sent a wink to all the hot girls and see who bites. Stupid, i am much more choosy not in a shallow way, but im trying to find someone who is a compatible match.
That is likely the difference and its awful being the girl because you have to see and figure out who is actually interested in you for a particular reason other than just part of their random poll game. I remember every guy i message, i read his whole profile i take the time to think. At least as the guy you know if she messages you she is interested in you.1