I don't normally encounter this. When a guy is interested in me, he asks for my number, rather than giving me his number. He's cute, and I do wanna go out with him. But him giving me his number instead of him asking for mine has me kind of confused. I mean, what do I do now? If I want to see him again, I have to initiate contact, right?
He and a couple of other guys were flirting with me that night (let me tell ya... at 37, that felt great!). He's the only one among the 3 I'm interested in. The other 2 asked for my num, and he was the only one who gave me his num instead of asking for mine.
Men? What's my move now?
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Well it puts the ball in your court, it's less confrontational. Instead of risking rejection by asking for your number he's giving his.
Also it makes him stand out from the crowd since like you said normally guys ask for your number rather than give theirs.
It looks like it worked too. You're not here on gag posting about the 2 guys that asked for your number. You're posting about the ONE guy that gave you his. Lol its mission accomplished for him. Even if you don’t call him back, he DID get noticed more than the other dudes.
This would be my translation of what it means
" I'm interested in you. Im not sure if you're interested in me, so if you are give me a call, if not don't"
So yeah, the ball is in your court :)3