I don't really know where to begin. Frankly, because of all this and the additional pressure from college apps and school, I've been feeling quite depressed this past week or so. So I met this guy online. Ya ya whatever please get over that... anyway so when we met, him and I kinda just hit it off. We just got along so well. At first I didn't really think we'd have all that much in common but turns out we have quite a bit, not to mention we have a very similar sense of humor. Anyway when we talk, I'm like the happiest person on the planet. I remember once my face hurt because I realized I had been smiling so hard for 4 hours... Everything is always great when we talk. He's infinitely interesting and we can talk for hours. He's seriously one of the coolest guys I've ever met. I've never felt an awkward moment with him and we seem equally into each other. He's always complimenting me, supper excited to talk, telling me how there's never a dull moment with me.. But then he disappears. I haven't heard from him for about a week. Nothing. Hasn't responded to any texts. He's generally a really busy guy but a week? I'm starting to get worried. He's disappeared before too but that was for four days and he explained it to me. Seemed very valid. Too specific to be made up so I believed it. Now I don't know... things are starting to get a little fishy... but I don't understand why... everything was so great :( Could he be a druggie? oh God i hope not... I mean what could be going on? Any ideas? I'm getting really worried.
What happened? What's going on with him?
What Guys Said 1
Have you met in person? How long have you been talking online?
If you haven't met, it's possible that he met someone else. Maybe he has something going on that he hasn't told you about (that's innocent... or not).
My best advice would be to limit your thinking about him/talking to him until you have your own emotions in control. Don't let your interest become obsession until you are sure there is a future.0
What Girls Said 2
You said that you guys met online, it could be that he's having issues with technology at the moment.
If not then he could:
1. Have a fear of the responsibility of committing.
2. Be afraid that he might actually likes you more than he thought he would
3. Have another life behind the computer screen
If I were you, I'd stop trying to reach him and continue on with you life. I understand that you like him but you can't sit around and put your life on pause for him to reply back. Make your schedule busy, try to be active so that you won't be tempted to contact him. When he does contact you again, try to slowly tap into his personal life to make sure you don't get yourself hurt. If he let's you in, it should be smooth sailing. If not, be on guard.
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That's why you don't get so attached to people you meet online.0
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