so me and this guy were dating and REALLY hit it off, we dated for like 4 months, but I felt he was too protective and jealous, we broke up over it and now, 2 months after the break up he's texting me apologizing and seems very genuine and sweet, was never a bad bf, just too jealous. should I give him another shot? would it be a bad idea?
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You both need to talk about what you want and the ground rules. You need to ask him why he was so jealous. if it is unreasonable, then you need to point that out and ask how he is going to deal with NOT being unreasonable and jealous. At the same time if it turns out that you are asking for something unreasonable, like maybe you are flirty with other guys and he doesn't like that, you need to think about if you can stop that or not. (I am not saying that is how you are, I am saying that you need to make sure you weren't yourself being unreasonable.) after the two of you speak, you are going to be in a better position to see if this will work.0