If you met a female that you barely know, how long before you hop in a relationship? Is two (2) months to short to hop in a relationship?
BACKSTORY IN CASE YOU'RE INTERESTED:
I ask because a guy I've been with for two (2) years hopped into another relationship after only knowing the female for barely two (2) months, but they spend everyday together because they attend the same university. He moved out of state for school, as did she, apparently (from what he told me). Yes, it hurts, and I wish no ill-will toward the new female, but I'm wondering how or if it has the potential to last? This is someone that I'm madly in love with and we've ping-ponged a lot. Distance, when he moved, has taken a toll, but he's supposed to be done with school early next year (March). He says he isn't coming home, but I think he is (we're (me, friends, family) on east coast, he's on west atm). I'm just confused as to how someone I've been with for two (2) years can just hop into a relationship with someone else after EVERYTHING we've been through. We were there for each when our past relationships failed and no, it wasn't all rainbows and unicorns. We argued and had a LOT of tests that tore us apart for maybe a week or two every once in a blue moon... but I don't know what to do..
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Well what is your definition of a relationship? Mine is when a couple are committed together so they aren't actively looking for someone else. I don't think being in a relationship after knowing them for 2 months is too short, but doing other things on the side (touching, sex, kissing, etc.) is too early.0
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