Having been single for seven years, I'm beginning to think my ship has sailed. They say be patient, and good things come to those who wait, right? Well, I've waited, been patient, and nothing has happened. I have asked and gotten a grand total of one yes in my life (and not my most recent relationship- I was the one asked in that case). So, you'll forgive me for being a cynic, but I don't see it happening anytime soon. Maybe it's a crap argument that there is somebody out there for all of us. Perhaps some of us are just meant to be single, no matter how hard we try. After a while, you get used to failure. What's the point in even trying anymore?
I apologize if I came across as cynical in this post. I've come to realize that at least for right now, I do better alone. If it happens, it happens. But this one came to me kind of suddenly. I'm actually in a decent (not great, but decent) financial situation for somebody my age. Maybe I want to hold onto that for a while.
We'll see what happens. One thing I would like is to be asked rather than the other way around - it tends to work out better that way.
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Well considering I do not agree with the fate idea I will say yes. But I also believe there are multiple people we could choose. To me it is more of choice.1