My ex gf who was once a good girl for 4 years with me has turned to a slut. She was a Virgin when she met me & lost it to me.
It sucks we're taking things slow again and she said she wants us to get married but she can't commit right now cause she wants to enjoy her youth & explore. She's 22 & all she does every weekend is clubs & drink.
I saw her phone & she was sexting 3 different guys & it hurt me bad. She slept over my place last night & those guys were asking her to come over. I noticed she talks to these guys daily & me aswell
I didn't even want to talk to her about it cause she was asleep. I'm treating her the best way I can but I don't know why she's seeing these guys. Maybe she's jealous I lived my youth & had fun while she only had sex with me this whole time?
I wish she would cut this out cause I'm losing respect for her & it's just hard for me to let go cause we still talk daily & it seems like we're getting closer.
I wish she realizes these guys are using her for sex while i do more for her & provide more for her
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I think you're attached to the idea of being with the girl who gave her virginity to you. I think the idea of marrying the girl who gave you her virginity has been romanticized in your head. It's a perfectly valid want - heck, that's what I want. But she's not that girl anymore. You want to be her one and only but she's not that "good girl" anymore. She's being honest with you when she says she wants to marry you but screw around with others first. So at least there's that. But sometimes when people are honest it brings to light some truths we don't want to face. She wants you to be her first and her last but not all the others in between. And she wants you to wait around until she's done with her "in between'"s and then be there for her and that's just not fair to you.
Sometimes the truth hurts and this is one of those times. The girl from all that time ago isn't there and both of you are lying to yourselves thinking that she could one day come back.2