so my boyfriend and I are in high school and we've been going out for a little over two months now. he is a junior and I'm a sophomore. when we first started going out he was THE sweetest guy ever. he treated me with respect and loved to talk to me and always looked forward to coming over and hanging out and he always wanted me to go watch him at his football games too. okay, well I've noticed in the past three or four weeks or so he has been different. he's gotten more dull and can be quiet at times and when I ask what's wrong he says nothing. it got to the point where I thought we needed a break. after I told him that he cried asking why I felt that way and he was so sorry blah blah blah. I gave him another chance. now just a few days ago, we had plans to hang out and right before we were gonna hang out he ditched me to hang with his friends instead. I was hurt and called him and called it off. he cried. blew up my phone with messages that night, and called me the next morning. he apologized but we talked and he said we needed a break. okay. so the NEXT day he called and was crying really hard saying "I need you" and he said "I love you" and I gave us another chance. now we just had a fight at school today because he was quiet again and said "idk what I want" so I got sad but told him that he needs to tell me what he wants cause I'm tired of the dramas. and games tbh, but he apologized and at the end of the school day the first thing he did was hug me.. he always says "I want you to be happy" and "I care for you" but why isn't he showing it? I don't get it. I tried talking about it with him too & he always says he is sorry and he loves me and wants me to be happy. I can't even tell you all how many times he said that.
"I want you to be happy."
when he called me on the phone crying he said he hated himself and he never should've done that. I always feel bad when he cried but then the next day it's back to normal! I want the old sweet boyfriend back :(
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It sounds like he's confused on what he wants from you. It could be that he's really dramatic or he wants something from. It could also both, but it's hard to say. Most high school relationships are filled with drama. He probably feels that he's not doing something right and he's trying to figure out how he should be doing things. You should try talking to him again, tell him about how you feel on the situation and about him. Just be honest and see if things start to change. If they don't, then it really just means that he's dramatic. I won't tell you to move on, of course it's your decision. In my opinion the best thing to do is to be honest and talk about it with him, remember to tell him how you feel about him and the situation. I hope things workout between you two and I apologize if this wasn't really helpful. High school is a confusing time, so it's hard to tell whats right and wrong, because what is right could be wrong for the situation or the other way around. Still I hope this was helpful in some way.0