So... In dating my boss... We have only been dating about a month and a half now... We've had sex 2twice wihich have been the best think I've ever experienced seriously.. He's sweet funny and thoughtful... At work we keep things cool so no one knows what's going on because it's against the rules... But afterwork we sometimes hang out to just talk or have sex... im gaining feelings and I'm almost petrified that I'm going to get hurt... He says things like your supposed to take care of me & gives me messages at work buys me lunch and makes sure I can work as if I'm full time but it's like 2 other girls that like him at my job and he told me but I'm worried he could be seeing them even though he sometimes brush them off... Any advice... I might be over thinking 😣😣😣😣😣😔 However It's Making Me Sad
So Guys... I'm dating my boss?
What Guys Said 2
You are dancing on the edge of a cliff. And if things go sour, your boss isn't going to get hurt nearly as much as you are, and you have a fair chance of losing your job.
So the only advice I can give is communicate with him: does he want a monogamous relationship? If he says he does, then you have to decide if you trust him. If you don't know if you can trust him... you really really shouldn't be dating him.
Oh, and make sure you have some savings in your bank account - it can sometimes take a while to find a new job.0
What Girls Said 2
Dating the boss is not wise. If it goes south, your job could be at risk and I don't know bout you but I got bills to pay so no time for that mk. Lol but yea workplace relationships are risky. Someone could get jealous and go to hr and all kinda crazy junk. Just be careful.1
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