We have been dating for almost three weeks... actually not even dating! We haven't even been on a date before but we are boyfriend and girlfriend. Apparently he's always really busy. And I'm busy too but I have free time! But there is a school dance next week (Friday the 12th) and when I brought it up and asked if he was going to go (implying with me) he instantly was like "No I'm busy" so blatantly... It was super off putting and I really want to go! And I told him before that I don't want to be committed until qw hang out! I'm upset, and really want to go or at least finally hang out with him. What should I do?
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You seem young, but eventually you'll learn that later: Some guys like to have a girl "on the side", which means that you flatter his ego since you're so eager to hang out with him, but he doesn't really care about you per se.
I'm sorry sweetie, but I think you should let him go. You're only here for the girlfriend title, and you deserve better. There are guys that will do anything to spend time with YOU. And you'll realize this one was no good for you.
Besides, as soon as he'll notice that he doesn't have your full attention anymore, he might get confused and then he's going to be the one seeking your attention.
But the most important thing for you is to get out of this situation with your head high. You don't need him in your life.0
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