basically.. me and my boyfriend arranged yesterday that he will come mine instead of watching a film. we agreed to meet at 6pm after work when we texted today to each other around 3pm today to afgree. he texted me 30 min before we suppose to meet and said that director offered him free tickets to go and watch football. Obviously i told him that it is very disrespectful. he started saying that he loves football and i should have said have fun.
i texted him saying that you can cancel. he said he could do and really doesn't know what to do as his work might get angry and he really wants to go. he said he will be asked to do stuff more and more where i think now if we arrange to do something he might cancel.
i just felt very upset and disrespected. he arranged something with me and suddenly his director says you going etc with mates and he can't even say no or tried to explain to director that he has plans already. he said he tries to grow in a company and therefore needs to go..
he didn't call me. i told him am very upset plus feel ill. my friend suggest do the same back and cancel some meeting too. what you think guys..
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I can understand you are very disappointed. But you need to realize that there is such a thing as workplace politics. They pretty much suck, but they do exist. Sometimes someone in the position of your boyfriend, who you acknowledge is trying "to grow in [the] company" has to do these kinds of things with the boss.0