I've been dating my boyfriend for five months but He's started to get overbearingly controlling. He makes me eat when I'm not hungry (I have no eating disorder). He tells me what I can and cannot wear in public unless he is there. He reprimands me for forgetting my seatbelt. He's even threatened to spank me for messing up on giving him directions to a restaurant. He said the spanking would be nonsexual and a real because I needed to learn better to give better detections. It really makes me uncomfortable he is my boyfriend NOT my father. I do not act imature, I do not start fights with him, and I am very independent. i just don't know how to get him to stop looking down on me like I'm some helpless brat who needs him. I do love him and want to stay with him, I would just like him to see me as his equal. I want to let him know how I feel but I'm not sure on how to go about it.
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Simply say you won't accept the spanking, eat what you want, and dress however you like and he can come along if he likes. He will have to accept it and if he starts to get physical then it's probably time to consider leaving him. Don't let this slide though, it won't go away on its own.1