In your opinion, what turns you on. What do you look for in a short term fling, and what do you look for in a long term relationship?
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I never looked for a short term fling. If i was in one it was becasue I was young and dumb and didn't know how to let a guy know that i wanted a relationship
When i became better at communicating then I was able to let a guy know so the number one thing that I looked for was the fact that he wanted a relationship too. I mean I would still hangout with guys who were cool and all but I taught myself to not just throw myself at a guy and catch feeling unless i was sure he wanted a relationship.
My fiance has an amazing smile and he is really friendly and talkative and very cheerful and he just has this laugh that is so contagious and he is extremly silly so yes i liked that about him when I first met him however the thing that really made me want to give him a chance was the fact that he told me he was looking for a woman that he can call his own, so then i decided to see what he was all about and well we just clicked.4