I have posted a question regarding this subject before, it's not the same question though.
I was in another city celebrating my friends birthday this Friday . I have been dating a guy for about three months, we are not in a relationship but we both agreed we want one. I've met his colleagues, family and friends and he wants me to spend Christmas with him so things are getting a bit more serious.
Anyway. My friends and I were at this bar where several guys were hitting on me. I told them I've got a bf since it's easier that way and well, because I hope he will be.
One guy seemed fine with it and since I lost my friends we began talking, completely platonic. I'm very social and have several guy friends who have admitted their feelings towards me so I honestly didn't think too much about it. He had lived an interesting life and I could see myself being friends with him, he added me on Facebook while we were talking and I accepted. We kept talking and when I saw my friends I said goodbye.
This is where things got weird. I went in for a quick hug but he held onto me and then gave me a lingering kiss on the cheek. I froze thinking "what the hell just happened?" and then immediately backed away. I stared at him, he looked both confused and amused as I said "uhm.. okay bye" and headed towards the door.
We went to another pub where he later appeared. He came to talk to me and I once again told him I wasn't interested, I had a bf and so on. I felt like a bitch and then offered to be his wingman (should've told him off, I realize that now, but I was drunk and felt guilty over him thinking it was okay to kiss me). He declined, I wished him a good night and then walked away.
I'm big on trust and honesty and decided that I should tell my guy about this. His ex cheated on him so I'm not sure how he'll react. He asked me if it was serious (not sure if he think it is) but answered that he shouldn't worry about it since I don't want him to.
I'm so nervous and have felt sick to my stomach ever since. I like him so, so much and have fallen for him completely.
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1. get rid of him on Facebook - it's his fault for being so forward & cross the BF line anyway...
2. if this evidence crops up so that BF asks about him, tell him it was the only way to rid yourself of him, your friends left you unprotected
3. BF needs to know & accept that good looking GFs are going to be hit on, no matter where/what - it's NOT their fault and they do the best they can to defend... if he wants none of that then get a dog face GF
soooo... NOOOOOOO you don't bring up every damn insignificant incident your animal magnetism contributes to guys hormones out of control. You'll NOT feel better, BF will NOT feel better and rocky times ahead vs "feeling confession pure/unburdened" (not)0