I know this is a controversial question, but I'm in a but of a dilemma myself. I ended things, but I feel like it was in the heat of the moment, I hung up the phone and blocked him immediately after he started getting angry, before he was acting kind of strange and wouldn't really say anything at all. We weren't official, but that was part of the problem. I feel like if we were both better people we could have worked harder to understand where the other was coming from, and we didn't. He has done some incredibly nice things for me, been there for me when I needed him, and stood up for me. but he also hates talking about feelings and I think it's because he's only ever been in love once and it went reeeeal bad. One night he looked at me really intensely and said "you really are just so beautiful" and I feel like by a guy saying something like that so meaningfully there must be feelings behind it right? We have admitted "really liking" each other missing, and caring about each other, but I am worried that neither of us understands where the other one is coming from in terms of needs in a relationship?
- call him after a while, he's into you, and talk about it calmly, it sounds like it can be worked out if you don't get angry at each otherVote A
- It doesn't sound like he would want to re-evaluate this and you should move onVote B