I've been talking to the new girl at work for a couple of weeks now and I want to ask her out. Im scared if she says no their might be some weird tension or awkwardness among us at work. What do you guys think?
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I would bring up in conversation a movie, or a local restaurant you are wanting to go to. Then if she shows interest, later on in the conversation be like "Ya know, I think I will go to ________, do you want to go too?" Tell her that if she wants y'all could ride up together. That way if she rejects, you know how she feels. But you save face, because if she makes a big deal about it, you can say that you were being nice because it seemed like she wanted to go when you were talking about it, but it's cool either way. That way if she reports you at work, it looks more like you thought you were talking to a friend not asking her out. You gotta play smart.0