I met a guy online. I'm 27, he's 31. We had 99% match on okcupid and clicked just perfectly. Our first date was perfect. During first week we had 3 dates (all last minute invitations). We had sex on the 3rd date. Then we had our 4th date only after 6 days. It was a sleepover, we stayed at mine, we had a brekafsat together in a cafe and he drove me to my office. Then he said he was sick. I suggested to come over and to bring some meds or whatever he needed. He refused.
He texts every single day. He had his BDay this Tuesday. When I asked what his blans for BDay night, he said "my night is full". Then texted me good night, sweet dreams, kiss you (without any previous response from my side).
Last night he deleted his profile on OKCupid. And, being inspired, that night I asked him if we're goint to see each other, because I'm forgetting how he looks like (joking). He said it's all so sad with us. I asked what does he mean? He said that he's sad that we didn't have a chance to go out and that he wants to see me, but he's got troubles with his time-management and that he's is not very well organised.
I said that seeing each other rarely we can expand our communication (meaning first attemps in knowing each other) for years. He replied - I want it to last for years with you (smiley).
Here's the question. DOES he LIKE me?
He texts every day, and I know that 4 dates in 2 weeks isn't that bad. But I have some concerns that I'm just wasting my time.
However, I go out a lot with my friends, I'm quite busy. And I already asked him to plan our dates, because I won't be sitting and waiting for him. He said that he understands me but it would be difficut for him. I also I accept other guys invitations, because we didn't have an exclusivity talk (kinda too early).
Guys, what do you think?
P. S. Since the beginning he said he's looking for long-term and is ready to settle down and get married.
He asked about my plans for the weekend. I already had plans for Saturday day, so we went to the cinema. Then he stayed at mine. We agreed to plan our dates at least 1 day before. And yes, he has a lot going on in his life and he's kind ****ed up.
We had an exclusivity talk. He said he really liked me and that he's not looking for someone else (hey, why do I need a profile on okc if I got you and I got no enough time even for you?)
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He has a lot going on in his life that he may not feel comfortable sharing with you i suggest
You give him his space and understand what he is going through.
These are mixed signals so allow him to compose himself, tell him "when you are ready to see me let me know"
And yeah the guy probably really likes you.1