yes im like an outlet to her, she grows more distant, sometimes she acts very indifferent, or she acts just angry, than she tears up when i talk to her in a calm voice, than she wants me over, than she doesn't. than she doesn't want me to touch her, than she cudlles up to me and touches me or kisses me in the neck, and im not allowed to do anything back. should i just try to spend time with her, let her touch me, and feel her comfortable, and just be there and not really talk.
Best way to react when the girl you like had a miscarriage from you, and is growing distant?
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Be patient with her. I've never been in that situation but I can imagine that it's very difficult, and since she carried the baby there are no "safe zones" for her to go to when she wants to distract herself from what happened. Everyone grieves differently so it'd be wrong of me to give you advice on how to deal with that. But it should help if you respect how she feels and what she wants, even though it might be difficult and confusing for you.1
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