I'm hearing from my mother, father, younger brother, my guy friends that I should not be going out with current bf because
1 he's younger
2. he has no money
3 he has no house
4 he doesn't have money for repairing his car etc etc
5 he's nice but maybe too nice?
and it's every day, almost 24-7 of whining, complaining from these people. what do you do when people are all saying this crap constantly? I feel that I am tired and want to run away from everyone including the bf
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I'm a dad, so take my advice with a grain of salt here. In my younger days, I shunned such advice as well. But in hindsight, I generally feel that I should've listened more and at least given those thoughts some honest analysis.
Everything you mention is workable, but there has to be a far more fundamental reason for them to suggest you leave him. I'm going to guess that it is a combination of: a) you're too good for him; and b) he isn't going to amount to much in the long run. (Take for example, he isn't likely to hold a steady, decent job).
That's my take. But Love does conquer all.2