I myself do not smoke, never have and I don't plan to. I dated a guy who was smoked all the time, and he did around me all the time. We broke up, and I was kind of dating this other guy who was also a stoner, but he was discreet about it. He first tried to hide it from me, but I found out lol.
Smoking doesn't bother me as long as the person still gets shit done. The first guy, was a nobody, complete loser, going nowhere in life. But the second is so smart and a lot more ambitious than me (I'm pretty ambitious) so I couldn't care less whether or not he smoked weed.
He even told me he prefers a girl who doesn't smoke, or doesn't party much (me). I thought that was kind of weird but I've heard it from multiple guys, it's pretty hypocritical but it kind make sense to me.
So potheads, would you enjoy being able to smoke with your girlfriend a lot, or would you feel weird about it? Meaning, that's something between you and your buddies, not something you're interested in doing with her? Would you prefer to date a girl who's doesn't frequently smoke? (Assuming she's not naggy about it) I know couples who do it together every day and people who think it's weird.
Or, non avid smokers, how do you feel about the girl you're dating being a stoner?
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I don't smoke a lot. At all. But I have done it & I do enjoy doing it. I'm in college & I've been on the deans list, & I think I got a good future & head on my shoulders.
Really I have the most fun doing it with a significant other. If she didn't want to I wouldn't make her, & I really wouldn't wanna do it without her tho.
Personally I think you can do it & have a completely successful life if you don't let it become such a big part of your life.
Anyway, I would love to smoke with my significant other & I have before. Good experience & lots of fun.1