i used my boyfriends phone the other day to find my phone, and when I pressed the call button...the first number I see dialed is his ex girlfriends. I try not to look to deep into it, so for one time, I check his texts, to see if its just phone conversation or not. and there waiting for me is a text from him to her that says hey I have the day off tomorrow, want to hang out? and she of course says yes. I feel totally betrayed...so I take all my stuff from his house and leave before he is out of the shower. when he calls I cry to him and explain why I left, and he just says he was just going to just meet her for coffee because she was having a really terrible week and needed someone to talk to . I tell him its bullsh*t and he kept it hidden from me, and I just keep crying. he says its harmless and he would of eventually told me later that day...i just tell him I have to go, because I couldn't stop crying, and he just says k bye and hangs up. and he hasn't tried talking to me...it has only been one day...why hasn't he? does he not care that much. and what if he did hang out with her? what do I do?...
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While you may not be happy with your boyfriend's choice of activities or company, technically you're the one in the wrong. You're the one that went snooping through his phone. I don't blame him for being mad at you for 1) snooping and 2) crying non-stop about it.
It sounds like your boyfriend and his ex are still close so you gotta make a choice. Accept that they're friends and are going to hang out or find a guy that doesn't talk with his ex. If you want the former then I suggest you apologize.0