Met this guy on OKC, we hit it off, have met a few times in person and talk for hours every day online, and he even buys me random gifts and drives an hour just to see me. We're not dating, but are pretty open about being interested in each other. he says he wants to take it slow so he doesn't freak me out and its "up to me" to make a move.
Well I deleted my profile, didn't tell him or anything just was bored with the site. today we were texting and he out of nowhere said, "we both deleted our accounts, now i can't look at your pictures anymore". but... well... I googled his name and his account is still there. like why would someone just voluntarily lie about that? i don't care if he has a profile, just i don't get why he lied about it. makes me backtrack on trusting him. any opinions?
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I hate to say it but if he is a liar, then he is a liar always. I would not get involved with someone like this. My question to you is, why did you look him up after he told you he deleted it? This behavior indicates that you cannot take anyone for their word and that you have a knack for investigating things. This may be a sign that you don't trust, and I get it, it's hard to trust. On the other hand, I had the same problem with my girlfriend. I got a new phone in which, with my old phone, I was always logged in to Face Book account. On my new phone I couldn't remember the password to get in, so when I told her I haven't been on for months, she didn't believe me. Could this site have a glitch? If you like, I would talk to him about the situation and tell him you don't take kind to lies. If this is a deal breaker for you from the moment you learned he lied, then cut ties and move on.0