I've been on three dates with this guy - he bought me dinner and drinks one date, drinks another date, and we have also just hung out casually.
He treats me really well and looks after me and seems really genuine.
I'm a virgin and he isn't. We have kissed a few times but its been a bit more than less than tounges. The most touchy he has got with me is hugging and also as we were walking along he put his arm round my waist and it kin of drifted to my hip and slightly further down, like kind of to the side of my bum. But he hasn't tried to have sex or anything with me yet.
He constantly calls me beautiful and gorgeous and stuff. And I do really like him.
He asked me to be his girlfriend after only 3 dates. Do you think this is a red flag?
I don't know if I'm looking for excuses not to be with him. I feel a bit insecure because I haven't had a proper boyfriend before or many guys telling me they want to be with me. I'm not fat but I'm worried I'm a bit chubby and he won't like me naked. Or that he will be put off that I don't know how to kiss/have sex properly.
I told him I do want to be his gf eventually but I want to make sure he like me properly first.
Am I doing things wrong? What do you think about things?
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He placed his arm around your waist; he therefore knows that you are chubby. That doesn't seem to bother him, so why should it bother you?
If he asked you to be his gf after 3 days, it means he wanted to be with you even before the first date. Those 3 dates only convinced him that he wanted to be with you.1
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