I seriously need you to win a girl back. I like her so much.
Here's our story: I'm a normal 25 years old with good job, and then came this new employee who is 22 and with whom it clicked. At first I didn't really pay attention to her but with time I got to know her and felt for her.
I have been asking some girl colleagues on her preferences etc in order to win her heart, I really want to be the perfect gentleman for her. One time I decided to take a step forward and told her about my feelings, and she told me she felt the same way for me and accepted a date invitation which went great and ended up well, to show respect to her I shacked her hand when I drove her back home and she told the girls she really loved the gesture.
However, the issue is that people gossip about us a lot, which put her on pressure as a new employee and told me that she's embarrassed on a daily basis, so we took a step back, I did it for her.
Here is what to know about her: She's very gorgeous with a tight body, she is the girl that any man can notice when she walks in, but I liked her personality rather than her looks, she's fun.
What she likes about me: my looks, intelligence, style and loves my cooking, she literally eats all my food because she love it every time I bring it to work.
What I like about her: personality, fun, openmind, sometimes she says silly random stuff but I find that so cute.
I want to get her back, I don't really care about the gossip in our office, it means for me that people envy us. And the idea of her speaking to other men who look at her only for her body annoys me since I respect her so much, in fact I never got physical with her, only handshaking.
Pls girls, help me out, how can I win her back? :( please reach me out if you need more details that would help.
Then afterwards whenever I eat something she comes and get some of it, and sometimes I see her looking at me.
In the afternoon she went back to normal, she kept her distance and we didn't talk at all, only when I was having some chips and asked me for some.
Most Helpful Girl
First of all you should seriously learn the definition of discretion. You two work at the same place so of course people are going to gossip if you are making it openly aware that you two are romantically involved.
I say in order to gain back at least a sliver of hope as far as you two getting together I would reach out to her PRIVATELY and express how you regret how you went about connecting with her on a romantic level. That this time around that you would like to do it more privately so that you two can avoid unwanted attention.
Express to her that you two should possibly come up with a set of rules that you must not break while at work. For instance directly interacting with her at work for reasons other than work. Don't talk and joke around with her that draws attention. If it's not about work then wait until you two are off then talk about it. As a matter of fact you two should keep interaction at work to a bare minimum. Avoid each other like the plague if you two do decide to date.
It is all about DISCRETION. Keep it totally and completely discreet.1
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