Always put me in the friendzone cause that's what I experience and I have the label as a nice guy plus whenever I get close to a girl she just considers me a good friend
Can being too nice land me in the friendzone?
What Girls Said 3
Yes, yes it will. Why? Most girls like the bad boy type, I personally like the nerdy type. We want to see you when you're acting crazy, mean, stupid, funny, weird and you know all of that. When we introduce you to someone we want to be able to say " this is my guy, he is the weirdest funniest person you'll ever meet, his awesome” not just "my boyfriends is really nice". But Not all girls are like that. Some like the nice type too.0
it depends on individual girl
but u dont have to change urself for that0
If someone wants you to be bad to like you then you are too good for them. Keep being nice, and someone will come along0
What Guys Said 6
That's because your talking too much, offering too much of yourself and leaving nothing to the imagination. If you like a girl, it starts with confidence, like you know your the best thing since that silly rabbit and his cereal. When you get the number, stay off the phone, the phone is for setting up the date, if she text dont be to eager to text back, answer back and say hey, love to talk but I got company and dont want to be rude, then say can't wait to see you.. See she can't friend you, cause she is interested in getting to know you, and she I persuing you. The female lion hunts, the male lion eats, get it. A woman wants what she can't have, or understand. God and Adam told Eve to not touch... tell a woman not to do something, and see that she won't do it... you make yourself the forbidden fruit, and she'll want to take a bite. Conclusion, be cool, dont bare your soul, talk and be charming in person not on the phone, and please make her laugh by being a WISE ass... then you will find yourself in her comfort zone, dancing in her end zone, instead of being penalized in the FRIEND ZONE!!!2
Nice will probably not land you in the friend zone. BUT, don't confuse nice with being too timid to approach a girl. If you don't approach a girl and let your intentions be known, that can friend zone you. Approaching her and letting her know your intentions is not being a jerk, or being un-nice, unless you are overly aggressive with it.0
Then stop acting like her bestfriend or worse, a doormat, Mr. Nice guy.0
Being too nice is, often by low end or confused women, translated to weakness and a lack of confidence. Being nice/kind but also being direct, not afraid to be honest with her, and confident is always a mans best bet with a woman.0
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