I joined Match. com to start dating again. I messaged this guy on there that lived about a couple of hours away from where I am. We messaged each other for about a week and I decided to give him my number. We have texted each other back and forth for about a week. I was near his location last week so we made a date. He took me to an upscale restaurant and bought me a flower after dinner. He texted me 30 minutes that night after the date that he hoped I had a good time and to let him know whenever I'm back in town. I thought we hit things off great but I haven't heard from him much since the date. To his credit, he is in a radiologist residency and about five years older than I am. I'm guessing he doesn't want to get to know much about me since we have not spoken since the date. Should I wait for him to pursue me and just forget about him in the meantime?
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He is doing a great job of not crowding you by being a stage 5 clinger. Obviously he is interested in you, he brought you a flower, too you to an upscale restaurant, and did this even on the first date. I can bet you he is thinking, (Great gal, gorgeous smile, nice body, okay, I gotta slow down and approach this right before I blow it) my suggestion is call him and make the date, he is waiting in you, because he doesn't know your schedule, and you his. If he crowds you calling you desperately then you may loose interest. Finally, cause I'm long winded here.. lol... I may suggest, really reconsidering this long distance relationship, statistically they fell, but this is another subject, I may cover elsewhere. So beautiful, call him, set up a date, and enjoy the ride!0