I've had a thing with this guy for a couple of months. We like each other a lot, but haven't decided to date because we're still trying to decide if we want to. However, we don't talk to other people, and many people have started to ask if we are dating. One of my "friends" (she's a friend of a friend and we don't know each other extremely well) fooled around with him about a month ago, but this was before people knew that we had a thing. She apologized and said she'd stop talking to him, but recently he's told me that she's been trying to text him and snapchat him all the time. The guy and I aren't "exclusive", but it was understood that we weren't trying to get with other people. I know for a fact that they've been hanging out recently. Who should I be mad at? Is it right to be mad at both of them? I'm just so confused about it all.. I'm not necessarily pissed or anything but I just feel really strange because it confuses me based on other things that have happened. Thanks in advance!
- Both of them suckVote A
- He's in the wrongVote B
- She's in the wrongVote C
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He's the one who decided to do that when you were agreed it was a thing where you weren't seeing other people.
He decided that. Not her. Listen, if you have a man, and he fucks out on you. Blame him. The other girl has no commitment or loyalty to you, be is meant to. If he breaks that, it's on him.2