I had a really bad relationship, I found out that the guy had been seeing multiple other girls the entire time we were together. Funnily enough we aren't together anymore.
I'm in a new relationship- about 3 months and it's going good. This new guy hasn't given me any reasons to think that he's seeing other people or to be fair... hasn't really done anything wrong at all.
But sometimes I suffer from anxiety and I can be a little insecure in relationships now because of the previous mess. I haven't really said anything to this new guy about it yet. I'll talk to my friends about it and the anxiety will hit and the fact that he hasn't texted me turns into "Well I guess he doesn't like me" or something else equally as bad.. I don't say anything to him about it because I know it's just my brain being nuts.
So I guess I'm asking... how do I get over this anxiety or the insecurities without driving him and potentially my friends away?
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Your mind just has to realise that this is a new relationship and he needs to be given a chance. He's your boyfriend so obviously has strong feelings for you, therefore if he hasn't texted he's just busy or working and it's nothing personal :)
I had the same problem as you at the start and this video helped! YouTube. com/watch? v=GWKza4wRO80
good luck x2