Hi all. Need honest answers. I've been signed up on an online dating website for a while. The oldest picture I have on there is a year old. I'm naturally quite slender. However, I have been very ill the last two months and am on some serious steroids. I am quite literally double my usual size!!! It really gets me down. I'm bloated and well... big! I've only been talking to guys again on the dating site for about the last week and have a date with a guy tomorrow night. However, I'm really nervous about going. I never thought about changing the pictures and it's just hit me that I am now fat/bloated etc compared to the photos. Obviously it's not a permanent thing. When I stop taking the steroids the weight will come right off... fingers crossed. But do I tell him before we meet? Warn him as it were. Will he mind/care? Do I cancel? Just turn up and then tell him? Help!
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The truth is nobody likes to be lied to. If the boot was on the other foot what would you thing. I'd explain the dealio before you meet, he'll probably think about it for a second, then still wanna meet you. Rather than it being a surprise and something you've kept hidden. You sound really concerned about your weight, it's not your doing so don't feel guilty because that's just ridiculous! You'll be aiight!1
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