Ok so I had a second date yesterday and it went well and we even talked about what we would do on the third date, but we didn't actually schedule the day. My question is how soon should I start talking about the third date? We just texted a little bit here and there today and I didn't want to seem pushy already trying to arrange the next date already especially after a late night the day before. She was actually the one who mentioned what we could do on the third date so she definitely wants another one. I'm thinking about bringing it up tomorrow. The next time would have to be this weekend I think, but that's a little soon in my opinion.
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Don't over think this, sweetie, it will only bug your brain out and make you Feel you Need to Approach and Broach the subject Every Time-----We just text a little bit here and there today...
Let things flow, let it go... you both have had this 'Second date' which seems to have gone great. And with the First, which brought you to this One right now, things apparently became even More snug as a bug in a rug.
Nurse and nurture More now of the pushing of your buttons on either end to get to know one another further In between until you see one another again... open lines of convo are one of the most important factors when getting to know one another.
And the closer it gets to the weekend, which is coming up soon, maybe take a break this time around. Tell her you're busy if you just want to be 'The one who mentioned' this in passing, so you can keep things a bit more Enticing with spice and nice and not so Expected or even Exact where you feel Obligated right in this stage of this nature of things... and absence makes the heart grow fonder many times.
Yes, 'That's a little too soon' in my Own opinion... give it a rest, take some time so you both have some space. You will be glad you did. And being she 'Definitely wants' another, she will probably find you are worth the Wait------No matter when you decide on bringing it up.
Good luck. xx0