I would like to know what time frame girls feel comfortable with guys asking them out and what is your acceptance rate as time goes by?
Is asking after a day or two ideal or maybe a few more?
Is 1 week too long? Does the attraction fizzle out after that?
I have a feeling this is where I may be going wrong.
In general I don't feel comfortable enough to ask girls out until at least a week or two has gone by and I get the feeling most girls lose interest by then.
I'd love your input girls!
- 1 to 2 days.Vote A
- 3-6 days.Vote B
- 1 week.Vote C
- 2 weeks or more.Vote D
- Forever alone.Vote E
Most Helpful Girl
It depends on how long you've known her, and if the two of you can keep an interesting text conversation going.
If she's someone you kind of know, (like a co-worker), then I'd say a day or two is fine. You don't really need to wait any amount of time.
If it's someone you've just met, then I think you can either ask them out on the spot, or wait a little. It's just whatever you feel comfortable with, and you have to judge it on a case-by-case basis. There's no "right answer" to this. But I'd say no longer than a week. Because you can only talk to a stranger for so long, before the conversation gets boring and dry. If you feel that the conversation is getting dry sooner than a week, then ask her out sooner.
Personally, I think the sooner the better. Because you can't really get to know somebody well over texts. It feels disconnected to me. She won't get to know your great personality if she doesn't actually hang out with you. Hope this helps :)1