We have these long four hour phone calls and he's getting a little upset that I tend to run out of things to say. During the duration of the phone call in the beginning we are laughing and making fun of each other but when time comes to talk about each other I go quiet, why is that? It pretty infuriating and I am quite surprised that he's still talking to me. He said when two people talk each have to give there 50/50. I completely understand that but when the spotlight is on me, I go blank like I have nothing to say. When he's talking I add my 2 cents to everything. He is now saying that he can keep talking for so long and asking random questions will lead to nowhere. I told him I was tired since it was 2 in the morning and he said he'll text me. He told me goodnight, we'll talk later, don't worry about anything I said at all.
How the hell am I not supposed to worry? I am having complete anxiety over it because I think something is wrong with me? Why can't I open up, I do feel like it's forced but is that just the way I am? He constantly tells me I have to overcome it, I don't know how though. How do I reply back without sounding like an utter idiot.
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LOOOOOL this is exactly why I avoid phone calls. I can talk properly in real life and through texts but for some reason - just like you - I randomly blank out during calls. We're just awkward I guess.
Do you get nervous when you talk to him? Maybe that's why. I mean, you can practice talking on the phone to someone else, but you can't really change your personality so I can't think of anything you can do. :/1