I have a good friend whose been in a relationship, with a girl who gained more than 60 pounds. Her thyroid is fine, she's able to exercise, and has a gym membership she pays for but doesn't use. He is a fitness model who has fit women, around him daily who wants everything to do with him, and he's been faithful, however, he has lost attraction to his longtime girl, and won't have sex with her until she looses weight. He's not attracted to her, frustrated, and tired of her illnesses' due to poor diet, and exercise. Given his situation with a woman who refuses to stay attractive for her guy, would you with hold sex, and consider a breakup? P. s. Yes they went to counseling but still the problem remain
- Yes I would withhold sex, in hopes my partner would loose weightVote A
- No, I will love/ like you despite how unattractive you get because attraction is withinVote B
- cheat with the hotties, and stay with your partnerVote C
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I advise the fitness man to move on. Don't withhold sex. If forced she will be unhappy and look for revenge.
Myself, I stayed with fat wife. She eventually lost some weight on her own. But it was a long time coming and is still chubby. But I signed on for better or worse and love her anyway. She did the same for me, I have plenty of problems, she stuck with me through hick and thin. That is what marriage is about.
I shot this newlywed couple on their honeymoon at a mardi gras.
She wears glasses, is an 'A' cup, has a few stretch marks and is a little chubby. I guess no one told her she was not supposed to get married.