Im fun and i try to have a good time with him but he's so closed off and makes me feel like something is wrong with me. he's soooo fun and talkative with frirnds but he's a completely different person with me. why?:(
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If you are date mates, sweetie, he is shutting you out and not allowing him to be Up front and personal because this could be because if he starts to unleash everything Personal inside of him and his life, it would slap a title on the both of you by making this----Official. He may not be ready nor raring to do this at this point and time.
Go slow with his flow at the moment. By nursing and nurturing something that you both have started, he may decide to open up more to you down the road.
He feels comfy and cozy in being with these 'Friends' because they are No one he as to explain anything to nor answer to, just be himself and let his hair down with ease and no tease nor please.
Let time be your guide and feel him and your situation out. If you see it is going down a beaten path, you can always bail out and find someone who is more into wanting the same things you do and right off the bat, think you are Ms. Right for him.
No, nothing 'Wrong' with you, it's just his way... he isn't going to let anyone in if he doesn't feel he wants to make them part of his nest right now or them his business as well.
And who knows... maybe he would prefer the more 'Quiet type' of girl who is boring and just looks at him having all the fun, while she sits in a corner... I know guys who are like this too.
Good luck. xx1