I few months ago, I clicked really well with this guy. We had a lot of fun together, but I've never been in a relationship before, and he was pushing to hangout everyday, I mean he was planning dates the night of one date ending... after 2 dates he already introduced me to his family, and wanted to meet mine which he did. they seem like nice folks and all. but anyways, I think about him from time to time, and I'm moving close to him , with my family. and want to connect with him again. (he used to live 40mins away) ... we haven't talked since I ended it. 3 months ago or so. How should I do this? would I come across as needy or desperate? do you think he'd be mad because of how it happened... help?
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He will, very likely, never trust you again or your mentality. You ruined it and once that particular ruination takes place the chances of reconciliation are extremely low. You could try but should prepare yourself for a rude awakening by his response.
I would suggest just moving on unless you can, somehow, concoct an amazing letter/message to him which explains your feelings in totality and brings light to you being confused at the time and not that you weren't interested.1
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