Usually unless someone is a total jerk on the first date I'll give them a second date since first dates can nerve wracking for some. After that if I'm still not feeling it I tend to tell the guy I can't see things going anywhere. What about you guys?
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Usually the first date (if it can even be called such) should be brief, basically making sure they aren't going to make a skinsuit out of you and that there is attraction and connection and something of a spark. The second date is where things begin to get interesting, the third and fourth where they get very interesting.
With that said, if you definitely get a bad vibe from someone (or just no vibe at all) on the first date, call it a day there.0