So my first kiss was wen I was 16, a 20 yr old friend of mine taught me how to kiss. We knew that we liked each other when he was teaching me. But I wasn't in love and he wasn't either. He did a lot of things with me (not sexually but just during kissing, you know). But there's no spark or any electric feeling that you get when you are in love. Does he consider as my first kiss or will the guy that makes me feel you know whatever that feeling is, be my REAL first kiss?
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It's so funny you ask this question because the exact same thing happened to me! My first kiss was for a play, I was (still am lol) 16 and the guy was (still is) 20! We became friends but weren't in love or anything. The kiss didn't really have a passion to it because obviously it was just for a play. I wonder myself if he thinks he gave me my first kiss or not. It's super funny that you asked this and how it's so similar to what happened with me! Lol to me, I see it like this : it doesn't matter weather other people or the guy considers it your first kiss, it's what you want it to be. If you decide that since it didn't mean anything, it wasn't your first kiss, then it wasn't, but if you chose that it was your first kiss, then it was. I'm still not sure if mine was or not.1