What are some reasons you want to approach a girl? For example: you want to be friends or you are interested? You name it.
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Coolness is a big factor. It usually just depends on an end game. If im sexually attracted, well we all know where that will end, if not and im interested in learning more about her, that will happen too. Sometimes it may be just a prestige thing but end game trumps that. Girls put off a vibe that guys can sense... contrary to what a lot of people believe, guys can and see all the signs/vibes girls put out. we just choose which ones we will acknowledge and which ones to ignore. Dressing slutty may gain a lot of eyes on you, but it won't gain you someone who will share or feel your emotions... thats an example. works vice versa too. just be yourself, and he will be drawn regardless.. once you try to influence it, you increase the chances of ruining it and you end up worrying why your friend is being approached and you aren't.0