I met a guy in a couple of weeks ago and we went out on a date in my opinion he was a little bit weird he came over to my house and he talked very low and he seemed to have no personality and was just acting weird like he was always talking low and soft and just didn't want to be positive or project anything nice you was basically very boring and kind of weird. He was in the military and not working at the time he was on his vacation and he pretty much had nothing to do and he didn't know anyone in town. On our third date he kept wanting to go to his house or my house from the beginning he kept saying will come over to my place he also had no furniture and had just moved in there but he really wanted me to go to his place but I didn't go.
Hanging out with him was painful because he acted really weird and he would not normally he his body movements were weird and slow and he just would stare at me intensely and it made me feel creeped out. And he kept asking to hang out so finally I said okay you can come over and you know he brought wine and beer and we were going to watch a movie. He acted wire again I felt really strange around him he only tried to pet my cats when they were in my lap and he was trying to get close to me and it was making me feel weird. And he had no personality and it was strange finally he left and you can tell he left because he realized I didn't want him close to me.
He then started texting me asking me why I was scared of him and being near him and I told him I wasn't I feel I was acting pretty normal for a third date and then days later he to start insulting me and putting me down saying really mean things about me. He was basically projecting his own behavior on to me and also just being horrible and mean. Was he just angry because he didn't get laid or didn't get what he wanted. He. never asked and just acted strange and I think any woman would've been a little creeped out by his behavior. I never insulted him despite his behavior
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Sounds like, not necessarily crazy but maybe he has some mental illness. You said he was in the military perhaps its PTSD. He probably likes you and is probably a really great guy, but should see a psychiatrist or psychologist, because neither of you is equipped to deal with whatever is troubling him by yourselves.1