Do you think you could still really like someone or love them if you haven't hung out or even talked through text in months?
Could it be real, or would you like only the idea of them?
(There's this guy that really like me for about 8 months. He went to study abroad and I assumed he would come back and would have forgotten me. We haven't really talked for about 5 months, while he was away, now he's back and all is the same...)
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I think you only like the idea of them. I used to like a girl who moved away years ago. I didn't talk to her for about two years since then. One day I thought, why not message her and arrange a meeting? At that time I thought, I'd totally love her. But it was only the idea of her that I loved; when I met her, I noticed things changed too much and I don't really like how she is now, I only liked the way I imagined her over all the time.0