I met a guy on a trip, we live on different countries (in south america and uk) and he seemed SO great, SO nice. We continued to chat for several months, I was blown away how sweet he seemed and our conv were great.. we really liked each other.
He told me all his bad experinces in love and how it destructed his self steem, and i really understood him. Then he started sending me messages while being drunk or videos too, so as i too have experiences of guys just using me i got worried and told him i was afraid that he was doung it too. H got really offended we didn't talk for two weeks, and after we continued talking he frinedzoned me and we continued to chat a lot, he even told me he felt we were going to be frineds for a long time because of how good we got along and ou convos were always deep and great. He then started showing he was really inmature, quite abusive, manipulative, (getting mad when i didn't have time to Skype or call him because i was studying, or always threatening to stop talking, or sometimes being quite rude)
I kept saing how much i really liked him despite he seeing just as a friend, but later when he saw i was moving on he told me he wanted me as his gf, and he really liked me and how he realised he wanted me. I told him we could try being together. The next day i asked him if he really felt it or was drunk talk. He replied one day later saying "drunk talk" . Why do you think he did such thing= it really, really crushed not only my heart cause he misleaded me, but my self confidence,,, how can someone be so mean, or cruel? opinions why he did such thing? i told him he was so disrespectful and mean, and i didn't want to talk to him anymore.. he just said "ok"
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A really similar thing just happened to me too. The guy kept saying he liked me but kept acting really flaky, it was so confusing. I think its usually because they are insecure about something or past relationships haven't worked out the way they wanted them to and end up taking their anger out on whoever they think will get hurt the most by it. Don't mind if you message me if you want to talk about it :)0