If you hooked up with a guy who you had been dating for about a month, and you both liked each other and knew a lot about each other. You knew he wanted a relationship but you realize you are not ready for a serious relationship after you hook up. Would you consider remaining friends with this guy if he wanted too? If he doesn't want to lose you from his life, and is willing to remain your friend (with benefits or not) would you consider that needy and pathetic or would you appreciate that and consider it?
I realize it might not work for everyone to remain friends with someone youve slept with and have some feelings for you, since its a complicated issue, but would you think the guy was pathetic for asking to be your friend to remain in your life?
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I defiantly would and have before. If you can't have someone as a love, there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to have them as a friend. Especially if both of you get over it and move on (if one of you still has feelings for the other though, its really hard)1