Seriously, what's the post in it all, dating, love, why bother with it? All it brings is pain, no? I've always been hurt in love, always, I have hated myself, obsessively hated myself because of it, I've hated the world because of it. Always fucked over and then getting to watch people blame me for it, friend zoned, rejected, dumped, that's all that's ever happened. Honestly, I think that 500 Hundred Days of Summer is the most accurate depiction of love, because, true love, happiness, any love, is all bullshit. There are no happy endings, just pain.
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Here's the issue. First thing is the definition of love. What most people call love isn't love. It's lust, infatuation, greed. A lot of people "love" others due to social status, wealth, self ego and image, sex and lust, etc. True love is where both partners work together in life. They stay together and solve things in GOOD AND BAD times. Love isn't temporary nor is it selfish or harmful. Love is kind. People nowadays are selfish and lost the true meaning of love. Now back to what you were saying, that's a good point. I mean look at the marriage rates drop and divorce rates sky rocket. I mean I see more men opting out and staying single. It's sad but it's reality. Especially with all these books and movies. We want to live a fake life and wear makeup and look good and rich and brag. Just self ego. We have to look at the incentives that make us do things. I am reading a book called Madame Bovary by Gustave Flaubert. Emma is a teen when her mother dies. She reads all these romance books and wants to be like Romeo and Juliet. She wants to have fun. Madame or Emma Bovary gets married to Charles, but later gets "bored" of Charles. Then she starts flirting with other guys and eventually she cheated on Charles. I am still reading it for a class in AP Literature but it's a good book. It definently related to today. I mean the book went to a real court case and they wanted the book banned and burned, but it didn't happen and they lost the case. It shows you what's happening today. It's like Sodom and Gomorrah. I wish you the best of luck in trying to find someone. I am trying too and I lose hope everytime I see and hear stuff like this and sexodus and cheating posts on gag.1